tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post8336597370117568221..comments2023-04-13T08:44:10.428-07:00Comments on This 'n That From on the Mountain: Not sure how to say thisKathrynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03272307621143522274noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-67763607195034157242009-05-07T01:03:00.000-07:002009-05-07T01:03:00.000-07:00Sometimes, something hits us and it opens up a Pan...Sometimes, something hits us and it opens up a Pandora's box inside doesn't it? I am glad you and Duane got to talk though.<br /><br />Sending hugs.Bobkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11842625953465490864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-76851224326361683582009-05-06T21:12:00.000-07:002009-05-06T21:12:00.000-07:00I wish I could give you a hug. I don't have any a...I wish I could give you a hug. I don't have any advice to offer while you're on this path. I've been down it and have come to some sense of resolution for me. But I can empathize with some of your struggle, so it is hard to watch you struggling because I think more advice is the last thing you need but it immediately springs to mind to give.<br /><br />So, I'll keep thinking and praying for you - my blogging buddy. <br /><br />RosemaryOpus Gluei Poobahshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00477381538871950621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-63470600930186144582009-05-05T10:38:00.000-07:002009-05-05T10:38:00.000-07:00My heart is one of compassion as we try and lay ho...My heart is one of compassion as we try and lay hold of all that comprises our beings....that which molds and shapes, transforms and conforms...the heartaches and sufferings, intertwined with the joys and celebrations. Not all is easily relinquished; not all is ever truly forgotten...I am praying you find resolve and peace in Him, trusting in His will for you....my blessings to you and Duane...<br /><br />hugs<br />donna<br /><br />P.S. please don't horrify me again...HAHAHA !!! (that was just too funny !! :) :) :)donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05964493445511234263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-39199470445579461442009-05-05T09:49:00.000-07:002009-05-05T09:49:00.000-07:00I'm glad you wrote about this, Kathryn. I'd have t...I'm glad you wrote about this, Kathryn. I'd have to agree with Kim, that we always remember what could have been and what we lost, but hopefully over time we handle the emotions better and better.<br /><br />It is very brave and mature of you to recognize opportunities to grow even though it can be painful.Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04939987028726182741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-23214057640715240892009-05-05T06:17:00.000-07:002009-05-05T06:17:00.000-07:00Well, I was going to write a comment that was diff...Well, I was going to write a comment that was different, until I read the exchange below. <br /><br />I think that it is sometimes easy to tell people to let things go, BUT being in the midst of my own struggle - I know that it isn't easy to move on. It's a tough pill to swallow sometimes, and we all heal at different rates and different times... I don't think that you'll ever truly not think about what was lost or the possibility of what would be happening if things had been different. It's only natural - the difference is that over time - you'll probably have those thoughts and they might not cause as much of an emotional setback. <br /><br />Hang in there though - I'm praying for you to find peace.Kim H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03611545652342361679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-76867082029928551422009-05-04T21:28:00.000-07:002009-05-04T21:28:00.000-07:00Curly Muse - i emailed you, but want to say here, ...Curly Muse - i emailed you, but want to say here, as well: I know you did not mean to hurt me. I think i cried because it is TRUE. I need to let go of it. I haven't done that yet, but your comment was another step in that direction for me. Sometimes i have to be pushed. :)<br /><br />If i don't conceive, i am not less of a person. I believe God accepts me & loves me for ME & because of Jesus, not because i'm - anything. God doesn't require me to do, be, or achieve anything to accept his gifts.<br /><br />I appreciate your apology, but you don't have to apologize. I know some people say cruel things on purpose, but you did not. Because humans are flawed we have misunderstandings. Again, what you wrote helped me grow. <br /><br />I appreciate you. Thank you sweetie.Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03272307621143522274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7842684642117669334.post-23031538396718452302009-05-04T19:06:00.000-07:002009-05-04T19:06:00.000-07:00I have to say that before I posted my comment ( th...I have to say that before I posted my comment ( the one that you blogged about), I read it over and over... I wanted to make sure I did not sound like I was being -I dont know rude or condecenting. But I think my meaning was wrong and I wrote it wrong. You can blog about your life however you want and say what you are feeling, that is what a blog is for. To let it all out. What I meant, when I said about you beating yourself up was NOT that you should not think of her at all or of the children you see around- but that you should not feel guilty about it or as I said beating yourself up for your loss. Its okay to be upset at comments, I dont have children and dont know if I will so I can never know what you are feeling. And I am sorry to have caused you pain and anguish. I just had wanted to say-and I still cant find the words- that its okay if you dont conceive, you are not less of a person for it. You are brave to put yourself outthere. And yes the blog was health related.. SorryCelestehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00551174028128814636noreply@blogger.com